Who am I? A two minute answer for people who are different in every WhatsApp group
One person for family, another for college friends, a third at work. This free two minute tool has you pick three words for how you are in each group and shows what's in all four. Nothing stored.
Sep 8, 20264 min read
Written by The Thought Co.. Clinically reviewed by our team
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Risograph illustration of four overlapping speech bubbles with the words four group chats, four versions of you, the real one shows up in all four, on being a different person with different people
You're a different person in every WhatsApp group. Something is in all four.
Family. College. Work. The one you haven't named. Four voices, and a quiet worry that none of them is the real one.
Find your authentic self.Find what survives all four rooms.the costumes are fine. everyone has them.
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Group 1 of 4pick three
Family
Three words for how you are in this group. 3 left
The overlay
In every group, you're
Which word do you wish was in all four?
The costumes are fine. Everyone has them. The daughter voice, the work voice, the one you use with the friend who knew you at nineteen: none of them is the lie. The thing above is what's wearing them.
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