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burnout women
The Unspoken Cost of Being a "Good Woman" (And Why I'm Done Paying It)
This blog explores the invisible cost of being a “good woman” in Indian families—the emotional labor, the inherited exhaustion, and the quiet expectations that...
anxious attachment
The Real Reason You're Drawn to People Who Don't Choose You
If you’ve wondered why you’re drawn to people who don’t choose you, this piece unpacks the real drivers—nervous-system triggers, familiar chaos, scarcity, projection, and...
avoidance
When Did Looking After Myself Become Harder Than Looking After Everyone Else?
In the thick of grief, I noticed how looking after myself felt harder than caring for everyone else. Autopilot kindness masked avoidance, resentment, and...
burnout
The Danger of Being Just One Thing The Day I Realized Being Good at My Job Was Destroying Me
Psychologist Priyanka shares a deeply personal reflection on how being “just one thing” — a good psychologist — led her to lose herself. This...
being a therapist
The Messy Truth About Being a Therapist (From Someone Just Starting Out)
Being a therapist isn’t about perfect answers; it’s about presence. This candid piece from a new therapist explores imposter feelings, boundaries, awkward silences, and...
burnout
That Next Vacation Won't Fix This (And That's Okay) The Breaks We Think We Need vs. The Rest We Actually Deserve
A vacation won’t fix burnout—at least not the kind driven by urgency and self-comparison. This piece explores the gap between escape and real rest,...
Anxiety
Gaslighting Isn't in Your Head—It's in the Pattern
Gaslighting isn’t in your head—it’s in the pattern. This article explores how gaslighting erodes self-trust, how trauma bonds keep you stuck, and why healing...
attachment
Why “Moving On” From Grief Is the Wrong Goal
Grief isn’t about forgetting or “moving on.” It’s a neurological and emotional process where your brain learns to live with absence while holding love...
Change
We're the Most Connected Generation Ever— So Why Do We Feel So Alone?
We’re the most connected generation ever, yet so many of us feel alone. Emotional overload, shame, and fear of vulnerability push us toward numbness...
being a therapist
What Your Therapist Doesn’t Want You to Know (But Should)
What your therapist doesn’t want you to know: they struggle too. Behind the calm exterior lies self-doubt, fear, and courage. This piece reveals why...
appetite control
A Therapist’s Honest Take: What Weight Loss Drugs Really Do to Your Mind
Weight loss drugs like Mounjaro quiet food noise—but also awaken buried emotions. This therapist’s perspective reveals how hunger, stigma, and survival stories intertwine with...