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What Your Therapist Doesn’t Want You to Know (But Should)
What your therapist doesn’t want you to know: they struggle too. Behind the calm exterior lies self-doubt, fear, and courage. This piece reveals why...

A Therapist’s Honest Take: What Weight Loss Drugs Really Do to Your Mind
Weight loss drugs like Mounjaro quiet food noise—but also awaken buried emotions. This therapist’s perspective reveals how hunger, stigma, and survival stories intertwine with...

Why Your Brain Hates Change (And How to Make Peace With It)
Why does your brain resist change, even when it’s good for you? This blog explores the psychology behind fear of change, how old survival...

Grief Doesn’t Work on Deadlines: A Therapist’s Guide to Feeling Your Feelings
Grief doesn’t work on deadlines. This therapist’s guide shows what healthy grief actually looks like, why society’s “be strong” script fails, and how giving...

Dear Reader, Stop Feeling Guilty About Stress Eating Science Explains The Real Reason You Reach for Ice Cream After a Bad Day
Emotional eating isn’t just in your head—it’s in your gut. This blog explores the science of stress eating, the gut-brain connection, and how certain...

The Truth Behind Break-Up Biases How to Process Breakups Without the Mental Tricks
Breakups are hard. But often, what makes them worse is the way we remember. This blog explores two psychological biases—rosy retrospection and hindsight bias—that...

The Exhaustion Epidemic: Why We've Forgotten How to Be Kind
Have we forgotten how to be kind? This blog reflects on how everyday cruelty seeps into our lives—and how small, intentional acts of kindness...

The Truth About Taking Feedback Without Losing Your Mind
Feedback can feel like a personal attack—even when it’s meant to help. This blog explores how to navigate the discomfort of criticism without losing...

Deconstructing Trauma Bonds: Understanding Why Smart People Stay in Bad Relationships
Trauma bonding isn’t about shared trauma—it’s about confusion disguised as love. This post explores how emotional highs and lows trap us in cycles of...

The Myth Around Superwomen: Why Women Feel They're Failing at Everything
We were told we could have it all—but no one warned us about the mental cost. This blog explores the hidden emotional toll of...

Therapy Won't Fix You—And That's Exactly the Point PS: But yes, it Will Transform You
Most people walk into therapy with a fix-me list—hoping for answers. But true transformation comes from sitting with your emotions, asking why, and learning...