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When Did Looking After Myself Become Harder Than Looking After Everyone Else?

In the thick of grief, I noticed how looking after myself felt harder than caring for everyone else. Autopilot kindness masked avoidance, resentment, and exhaustion. This essay unpacks why self-care can feel daunting—and what it means...

Translation missing: en.by Hello From The Thought Co. ·Nov 6, 2025 ·7 min read
Misdiagnosis of Adult ADHD
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Misdiagnosis of Adult ADHD

Rising social media awareness of Adult ADHD is a double-edged sword. The pandemic makes focus issues clearer, but some may confuse pandemic stress for...

Sep 3, 2021 ·5 min
Desensitisation To (And In) The Pandemic
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Desensitisation To (And In) The Pandemic

Do you remember the time when the Covid-19 pandemic started? Remember when the daily death toll would actually frighten us? When going out for groceries felt...

Sep 1, 2021 ·5 min
The Lipstick Under Our Burkhas
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The Lipstick Under Our Burkhas

The plot line of Lipstick Under My Burkha (directed by Alankrita Shrivastava) revolves around 4 women, each from a different age group and each leading very...

Aug 25, 2021 ·7 min
Neutrality Can Take Pressure Off
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Neutrality Can Take Pressure Off

Have you ever looked at a weight loss advert which says “love yourself #bodypositivity” and thought to yourself “of course it’s easy to love...

Aug 24, 2021 ·4 min
Can Realtionships Cause PTSD
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Can Realtionships Cause PTSD

It was 6 months, 2 weeks and 3 days and it still hurt. For her, the pain felt deeper. Falling asleep felt like a...

Aug 24, 2021 ·7 min
Reconnecting With Parents
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Reconnecting With Parents

On a usual day, without the virus, you’d get home and go straight to your room. Interaction with your family is almost minimal. Even...

Aug 24, 2021 ·6 min