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When Did Looking After Myself Become Harder Than Looking After Everyone Else?

In the thick of grief, I noticed how looking after myself felt harder than caring for everyone else. Autopilot kindness masked avoidance, resentment, and exhaustion. This essay unpacks why self-care can feel daunting—and what it means...

Translation missing: en.by Hello From The Thought Co. ·Nov 6, 2025 ·7 min read
Every Space Is Not A Safe Space
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Every Space Is Not A Safe Space

This excerpt explores the concept of safe spaces for emotional vulnerability. While communication is important, the author argues not all situations are ideal for...

May 11, 2022 ·3 min
A Guide To Building Trust In Relationships
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A Guide To Building Trust In Relationships

This excerpt explores building trust in relationships. While "trust me" holds weight, defining trust can be tricky. Children's perspectives offer a simple yet profound...

May 2, 2022 ·6 min
Money Can Buy You Happiness!
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Money Can Buy You Happiness!

This excerpt challenges the saying "money can't buy happiness" by mentioning how money can buy you happiness. It argues financial security is a major...

Mar 22, 2022 ·4 min