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The Real Reason You're Drawn to People Who Don't Choose You

If you’ve wondered why you’re drawn to people who don’t choose you, this piece unpacks the real drivers—nervous-system triggers, familiar chaos, scarcity, projection, and old wounds. With a therapist’s lens, it separates chemistry from connection and...

Translation missing: en.by Hello From The Thought Co. ·Nov 13, 2025 ·9 min read
The Lipstick Under Our Burkhas
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The Lipstick Under Our Burkhas

The plot line of Lipstick Under My Burkha (directed by Alankrita Shrivastava) revolves around 4 women, each from a different age group and each leading very...

Aug 25, 2021 ·7 min
Neutrality Can Take Pressure Off
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Neutrality Can Take Pressure Off

Have you ever looked at a weight loss advert which says “love yourself #bodypositivity” and thought to yourself “of course it’s easy to love...

Aug 24, 2021 ·4 min
Can Realtionships Cause PTSD
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Can Realtionships Cause PTSD

It was 6 months, 2 weeks and 3 days and it still hurt. For her, the pain felt deeper. Falling asleep felt like a...

Aug 24, 2021 ·7 min
Reconnecting With Parents
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Reconnecting With Parents

On a usual day, without the virus, you’d get home and go straight to your room. Interaction with your family is almost minimal. Even...

Aug 24, 2021 ·6 min
There's An Answer To Your Social Dilemma
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There's An Answer To Your Social Dilemma

Our blog on the Social Dilemma speaks about how social media is a tool which reflects the user’s choices and projections. There is no denying that...

Aug 24, 2021 ·4 min
Dementia 101
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Dementia 101

“Dementia” is it the same thing as Alzheimer’s and does it mean forgetfulness? Is it something only for the elderly or can someone in...

Aug 24, 2021 ·3 min
We Are Mislabeling Labels
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We Are Mislabeling Labels

Label as defined by the Cambridge dictionary is a word or a phrase that is used to describe the characteristics or qualities of people, activities, or things, often in a way that is unfair....

Aug 24, 2021 ·3 min
[Men]tal Health
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[Men]tal Health

(Trigger warning: mentions abuse; suicide; substance abuse)Patriarchy is a societal system that puts men in a position of power and women in a weaker...

Aug 24, 2021 ·5 min