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The Real Reason You're Drawn to People Who Don't Choose You

If you’ve wondered why you’re drawn to people who don’t choose you, this piece unpacks the real drivers—nervous-system triggers, familiar chaos, scarcity, projection, and old wounds. With a therapist’s lens, it separates chemistry from connection and...

Translation missing: en.by Hello From The Thought Co. ·Nov 13, 2025 ·9 min read
The New ‘Other’
ADHD

The New ‘Other’

In the last few months, we have witnessed a lot. The volunteering organisations, social media, whatsapp forwards – we all stood up for each...

Aug 24, 2021 ·5 min
Therapy & Internal Growth
ADHD

Therapy & Internal Growth

Having one too many clients allude to the movie “Dear Zindagi” insisting that I watch it, finally got me in front of the screen,...

Aug 24, 2021 ·5 min
Vicarious Trauma
ADHD

Vicarious Trauma

Vicarious trauma is defined as indirect trauma that can occur when we are exposed to difficult or disturbing images and stories second-hand. Usually seen...

Aug 23, 2021 ·6 min
Netflix Can Help
ADHD

Netflix Can Help

A pack of chips, a decadent chocolate and the inevitable and unchanging solace of Netflix. For the past 365 days this has been my...

Aug 23, 2021 ·4 min
The Gendered Burden
ADHD

The Gendered Burden

Last week the world celebrated mother’s day in honour of all the things our mothers do for us: the care, the love, the sacrifices....

Aug 23, 2021 ·5 min
Feeling Distracted?
ADHD

Feeling Distracted?

While looking at distraction today we cannot ignore looking at it through the COVID lens. We are currently living in a highly stressful environment,...

Aug 23, 2021 ·7 min
Vaccine Hesitancy
ADHD

Vaccine Hesitancy

In 2020 when the world descended into chaos with the loss of lives, jobs and freedom, we all desperately looked to the scientific community...

Aug 23, 2021 ·6 min
Eating: In Different Perspectives
ADHD

Eating: In Different Perspectives

In India, gaining weight is seen as a bad sign. I’m sure many of us have heard the sly “oh, you’ve gained weight, who...

Aug 23, 2021 ·8 min
Compassion Fatigue
ADHD

Compassion Fatigue

Compassion fatigue, in very simple terms, is an extreme amount of distress that one experiences out of constantly caring for another. Also called vicarious...

Aug 23, 2021 ·4 min
The Rational Vs. Emotional Mind
Amygdala

The Rational Vs. Emotional Mind

The rational vs emotional mind is a quiet tug-of-war shaping every decision we make. This blog explores how the amygdala and neocortex guide our...

Aug 23, 2021 ·6 min
Hair Untamed
ADHD

Hair Untamed

As someone who has curly hair, I’ve been told time and time again to “tame” it. At one point in my life, I was...

Aug 23, 2021 ·6 min
Learned Helplessness
Anxiety

Learned Helplessness

Learned helplessness explains why we sometimes stop trying, even when change is possible. Repeated negative experiences can make us feel stuck, but this pattern...

Aug 23, 2021 ·5 min