Why Do I Keep Waiting For Bad News at Work

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Because somewhere close to you, bad news arrived with zero warning, and your brain took notes. Now silence doesn't read as fine. It reads as pending. That's hypervigilance, not paranoia, and it's a completely reasonable thing for a nervous system to do after watching the ground disappear for someone else.

I've been hearing versions of this all month. A friend's team got the "please submit your resignation" call mid shift. No meeting on the calendar. No warning email. Gone by evening. Nobody at her company talks about it directly. But everyone's behaviour changed the same week. People started reading a two line message from their manager like it was a court document.

Here's the mechanism. Hypervigilance is what happens when your threat detector, built to protect you, stops waiting for actual danger and starts scanning for anything that could be danger. A quiet inbox. A meeting that got moved. Your manager saying "let's catch up" instead of "quick sync." None of it means anything on its own. Your body doesn't care. It's already braced.

This is a particularly Indian office problem. We don't have a culture of naming what's happening out loud. So the fear doesn't get talked through, it gets absorbed, and it leaks into every neutral interaction you have at work.

You don't need to fix your nervous system tonight. You need to notice what it's doing, so it stops running the show without your permission.

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