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The Real Reason You're Drawn to People Who Don't Choose You

If you’ve wondered why you’re drawn to people who don’t choose you, this piece unpacks the real drivers—nervous-system triggers, familiar chaos, scarcity, projection, and old wounds. With a therapist’s lens, it separates chemistry from connection and...

Translation missing: en.by Hello From The Thought Co. ·Nov 13, 2025 ·9 min read
The Game Of Love
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The Game Of Love

With the lockdown and the sudden feeling of isolation, people are looking for different ways to meet and socialise with others. Apps like Bumble...

Nov 28, 2020 ·8 min
Becoming Aware Of Our Shark Music
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Becoming Aware Of Our Shark Music

Imagine a video that shows a sandy beach, a blue sky with birds flying and crystal clear water. The background music is a soft...

Nov 23, 2020 ·4 min
2020 Ends, But The Anxiety Continues
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2020 Ends, But The Anxiety Continues

A new year always brings about a promise of new beginnings and escaping the past. Most of us are hoping and praying that while...

Nov 20, 2020 ·5 min
Womxn & Mental Load
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Womxn & Mental Load

From the morning tea to dinner and cleaning up after that and ensuring that everyone's ready for the next day is THEIR responsibility.When it comes...

Nov 7, 2020 ·5 min
That Woman Is Crazy
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That Woman Is Crazy

In the 19th century, hysteria was considered a diagnosable physical illness among women. The symptoms ranged from seizures, mood swings, anxiety, shortness of breath, pain, bizarre...

Nov 6, 2020 ·10 min
How To: Mindfulness
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How To: Mindfulness

To be engulfed completely in the moment, feeling the wind against your face and the sun as it warms your skin – that is...

Sep 27, 2020 ·2 min
Caring For Dementia
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Caring For Dementia

Well being, for many, is state of having a sense agency, hope, confidence and self esteem. Well being is perceived in a similar manner...

Sep 20, 2020 ·4 min
Safe Self-Harm
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Safe Self-Harm

TRIGGER WARNING: this post includes information about self-harm and self injury that may be triggering and distressing.  Self-harm means that you harm yourself on...

Sep 13, 2020 ·7 min
Food For Thought?
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Food For Thought?

Ever thought about why eating slices of pizza makes us feel really calm and sleepy? Or how we get addicted to eating chocolates?   Nutritional...

Sep 4, 2020 ·14 min