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The Real Reason You're Drawn to People Who Don't Choose You
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The Real Reason You're Drawn to People Who Don't Choose You

If you’ve wondered why you’re drawn to people who don’t choose you, this piece unpacks the real drivers—nervous-system triggers, familiar chaos, scarcity, projection, and old wounds. With a therapist’s lens, it separates chemistry from connection and...

Translation missing: en.by Hello From The Thought Co. ·Nov 13, 2025 ·9 min read