Emotional Glossary

The more words you have for what you feel, the more choices you have for how to respond.

Emotions can be subtle, layered, and hard to name. But when we give them language, they become more workable. This glossary is designed to expand your emotional vocabulary — because research shows that people who can name their feelings regulate them more effectively.

Think of it this way:
• “Sad” could mean lonely, hopeless, or grieving.
• “Angry” could mean betrayed, dismissed, or violated.
• “Anxious” could mean uncertain, overcommitted, or unsafe.

The more specific you get, the more insight you create. Emotional granularity (a term used in psychology) is linked to lower stress, better coping, and stronger relationships.

Below is a compact glossary to get you started:
Anger: frustrated, resentful, irritated, furious, betrayed
Fear: anxious, insecure, helpless, worried, dread
Sadness: grief, disappointment, loneliness, hopelessness, numb
Joy: excited, grateful, peaceful, proud, content
Love: warm, accepted, connected, trusting, safe
Shame: embarrassed, guilty, rejected, humiliated, inadequate

Use these as a starting point. Over time, create your own emotional language — one that reflects your lived experience.

Want more language, clarity, and care in your emotional world? Explore the full Emotional Regulation Toolkit.